Friday, 26 March 2010

A Lion would never cheat on his wife! But a Tiger Wood!


Hehe under Tiger Wood's name it states: "When 18 holes isn't enough". Oh dear ..!

Well, as we know Tiger Woods has been a bad boy with all these numerous affairs and it's caused his career to go down the pan just for the sake of a quick fumble. More so, his poor wife Elin to go through all the embarassment adding more pressure to her problems. To think that he has sexually and passionately made love to all the women behind his wife's back is pretty disgusting and dirty.




It's like Ashley Cole cheated on the nation's sweetheart Cheryl Cole, everyone knows that Cheryl Cole is mad to take him back, but cheating on her the second time you know he's taking the biscuit. Infidelity can affect the physical, psychological, social and I'm sure it's affected her in many ways. Especially, as she's in the media and entertainment limelight, it's considered to be worse.

Infidelity is wrong within a marriage without a doubt, you have a lot to lose and to gain trust back you have to earn it by working your butt off.

I believe people should think twice about jumping into bed with another person, as lust is a dangerous game and can lead to lives being shattered. I think those two should have considered to have taken advice about lying and infidelity or maybe read the link provided below!


Response to Lauren's Blog

My response to: http://laurenh1990.blogspot.com/2010/03/smoking-sexy-seductivelets-see.html


I believe that Smoking within the media and entertainment industry can appear to be quite sexy! Although, I am personally against smoking! I know what a hypocrite but it seems to work for actors/actresses more so along with their sex appeal.

I mean I don't think for a second that anyone would say that the moment Sandy from 'Grease' transformed herself into a sex bomb, with the fag in her mouth 'tell me about it, stud', appears to be bad, but would rather agree and say it's sexy. I found it to be quite sexy!

Saturday, 13 March 2010

Drugs

Now there are different types as well as uses with drugs. The purposes can be acknowledged for medicinal use, recreational use or even spiritual use. If people are to use drugs for recreational and the drugs are prohibited to intake or consume then of course that is wrong and the takers are breaking the law.

The Government have had problems in prioritising the classes of drugs, their strategical plan in order to keep Britain in control. Question is, is it working? There's a PDF file provided in the link below, which explains the Goverment policy in regards to drugs and answers the question too.

http://www.archive2.official-documents.co.uk/document/cm55/5573/5573.pdf


Overall, if an individual is misusing an illegal drug as part of their enjoyment and become addicted to fulfil their personal desires then of course it's bound to be perceived as bad. Prime examples, Kerry Katona and Amy Winehouse these showbiz artists aren't really helping at all, are they?!

On a personal note, say no to drugs! Stay sane, drug free and you may live younger.

Saturday, 6 March 2010

Masturbation

For me, this is quite an uncomfortable topic to comment on, more so it's a little embarassing! However, I'm not going to deny that I have never tried because that would be bull. You all have done it! I don't know anyone who has ever said that they have never masturbated, if so they're lying.

Anyways, it was a fundamental rule not to discuss sex itself in my family, the reason for this is down to my upbringing from a cultural traditional background, as most asian families would consider masturbation to be very taboo. Perhaps this was due to religious beliefs with 'lust' being one of the bad vices in Sikhism. Maybe my family assumed that mentioning sex would encourage a young mind, I can't honestly tell you.

However, I learnt more about sex education at school including masturbation but also from friends and their older siblings. Personally, masturbation is considered to be a healthy sexual behaviour as it has advantages, for instance, it relieves tension, lowers blood pressure.

Furthermore, like other behaviours, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances. As shown in the provided link below:


http://www.herballove.com/library/resource/overmas/fatal.asp


This is a very useful link, as it contains a survey where it asks if you over masturbate but also has case studies on people's experiences with masturbation.

Response to Ameena's Blog

My response to: http://miny-1.blogspot.com/2010/03/response-to-herjit-blog.html

I totally agree with you Ameena, some people can lie for a living such as a Barrister and blimey some of them can lie for England! I see your point as to how people can be compulsive liars and have a tendency to admire the habit.
I've been in similar situations as yourself regards to protecting a friend through lying and at times I have survived and other times I got it right in the neck! I would say it's 50/50 depending on situations.

I was extremely lucky to get this job, although I did have the intentions to be fully honest and see if I was capable enough to become employed to one of Britain's leading departmental stores. I couldn't risk the chance of losing out, and thats when I decided I have to do something. The key point about this is that in time I definitely got better with maths and my confidence grew into character. I did achieve something at the end through lying and that was my input to Maths haha!

Thursday, 4 March 2010

Response to Chloe's Blog

My response to: http://chloehodge13.blogspot.com/2010/03/masturbation-masturbation-is-something.html#comment-form


I love the picture of the chimp! It instantly made me laugh! Very interesting points regarding Ancient Egyptians beliefs. Learnt something new today!

Response to Ameena's Blog

My response to: http://miny-1.blogspot.com/2010/03/herjit-response.html


Thank you for your comment, I'm glad that you found it to be an interesting read. The provided source is very useful as it displays the physical and psychological insight to sexual sadism.

Response to Cassandra's Blog

My response to: http://beingbad-arebelyell.blogspot.com/2010/03/in-response-to-speak-your-mind.html

I thank you for understanding and sending the same message across regarding smoking whilst pregnant. Isn't this reality and so disappointing? There are many pregnant smokers out there that still continue to do this! They obviously don't understand the fact the dangers, harm and mistake that they're creating. If they are aware of this, which I'm certainly sure of, they should stick something on the end of it and not have babies. May sound harsh but it's the truth.

Tuesday, 2 March 2010

Prostitution

Well, I would say that it is only bad if they are forced in doing this job as many girls from abroad are promised jobs to financially provide for their families back at home when unknowingly to them they've become victims of trafficking for prostitution.




If it's considered as a hobby or a passion, taking a leaf out of the infamous Brooke Magnanti who was known by the pen name Belle Du Jour who became a London call girl. She supported her income by taking this job and more or less sold her body to men for the quick fix of cash. The difference is that there are some girls that enjoy doing this for a living. What's wrong with that? If they enjoy this profession, then who are we to say?
More information is the link provided on the London Call Girl herself.

Liar liar! Your bum's on fire!

Now, we have all been told during the very prime years of our lives that lying is morally wrong. You all must remember that rhyme as seen on my title. We all must have told some few fibs in our time. There are many types of lying however, the question I've always asked myself is, when is it ok to lie?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lie#Types_of_lie


However, this lecture got me thinking of my own actions whenever I get caught out, even over stupid silly things. We've all done it, it may have resulted in positive things and in some cases negative.

For me, I once told a lie during a job interview, where I was asked if I was competent with Maths and operating the tills. My CV said so otherwise that I passed Maths with a C grade at GCSE Intermediate level whereas truthfully, it was embarassingly lower than that! (My teacher was evil! Her fault!) I answered with full confidence that I gained that C grade and I have the ability to operate the till. I felt my cheeks throbbing, ten to a dozen knowing that I lied with integrity to make myself look good and have the chance to work. I got the job at the end, and in time I got better at Maths.


So, sometimes lying with integrity can be good as long as it doesn't harm or offend any other person!

Response to Mateusz's Blog

My response to: http://mkocotblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/reply-to-blog-2.html

Dietary requirements in later family life, contraction of infectious disease? You're missing the point I have made my friend.


I did not state that Government should rule each individuals family life on their dietary requirements, I stated that when the precious moments of knowing that the individual is carrying a life, shouldn't more be done by the Government in order to prevent the hazardous potential dangers to the unborn?


The Government should take action underlining the point of NOT taking over their lives, BUT make individuals aware of the importance of gestation and to become a parent this should be made vital priority. That's my argument.

However, the point you made is adequate and everyone is entitled to their opinion.

In response to your comment, if the decision of smoking whilst pregnant is left down to people, this just shows that the individuals' are not setting a good example even before they reach parenthood. The wishes of smoking during pregnancy results in the baby's suffering.

"When you smoke, over 4,000 chemicals enter your body. One of those chemicals is carbon monoxide, which gets into your bloodstream, and stops your baby from getting as much oxygen."

http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/2023.aspx?CategoryID=53&SubCategoryID=532

Response to Ameena's Blog

My response to: http://miny-1.blogspot.com/2010/02/response-to-herjit-blog.html

My dad was the same! After 20 years of smoking, he suffered a heart attack and I watched him through it from a young age. At the end, it came to my dad going through a double heart bypass surgery and it was very painful to watch him with all the tubes going into his body. The worst thing is, that he still continues to smoke fully aware of how his life is at much greater risk. I guess my dad does not appreciate the second chance that he's been given, silly man.